How Kanye West taught me about God’s forgiveness

Mike Holmes | September 19, 2009 | View Comments Comments

Kanye West

I’ve learned a lot from this whole Kanye West-Taylor Swift incident. I learned about the pride of one superstar and the character of another.  I learned how God can use adversity from my good. I also learned how unforgiving people can be. I mean, everybody knows Kanye messed up. And we all know he’s messed up before. And even though he angry manapologized most of us still want him crucified. Is it any wonder we have trouble believing God can forgive us?

Our Lens=Our World

Understand this: we as people don’t see the world as it is–we see it as we are. Why? Because we look at it through our lens. So, the positive tend to see a positive world, the negative see a negative world, cheaters see a world of cheaters, and so on. In fact, people who cheat in a relationship tend to be the ones who accuse the other of cheating. Why? They project their own infidelity.

Our lens are in direct proportion to our heart.

And since we have twisted hearts is it any wonder we see God in a twisted way?

He’s either aloof, the old man upstairs, indifferent, out to get us, or etc.  We don’t see Him as He is we see Him as we are. That’s why Jesus said, “You’re blessed when you get your inside world–your mind and heart–put right. Then you can see God in the outside world.” [1]

But God is so much greater than our perception of Him. He Himself said, “‘My thoughts are completely different from yours,’ says the Lord. ‘And My ways are far beyond anything you could imagine. For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts higher than your thoughts.’” [2] In other words, “I’m not like you.”

Unlike me, God is quick to forgive

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In being arrogant and making stupid choices..I’m no different than Kanye. And neither are you. But there is a difference between God and the court of public opinion: God is quicker to forgive. He delights in doing that–forgiving people. He’s always inviting people to receive that forgiveness: “‘Come on now, let’s discuss this!’ says the Lord. ‘Though your sins are bright red, they will become as white as snow. Though they are dark red, they will become as white as wool.’” [3] In other words, “Come on, I know you messed up! But I’m willing to forgive you, cleanse you, and change you…if you’ll let Me.”

So change your perception of Him. Ask God to show you Himself–He will gladly do it. He not like a flawed human, He’s so much greater than that; so much more loving; so much more forgiving.

“This is the kind of love we are talking about – not that we once upon a time loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as a sacrifice to clear away our sins and the damage they’ve done to our relationship with God. My dear, dear friends, if God loved us like this, we certainly ought to love each other. No one has seen God, ever. But if we love one another, God dwells deeply within us, and His love becomes complete in us – perfect love!” [4]

What are your thoughts?

  1. Matthew 5:8 (The Message)
  2. Isaiah 55:8-9 (New Living translation)
  3. Isaiah 1:18 (God’s Word Translation)
  4. 1 John 4: 10-12 (The Message)
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  • Very nicely put! Hopefully Kanye will come back from this and stop these antics. Out God is a God of 2nd, 3rd, and 1-millionth chances.

    Many people are also harshly criticizing Chris Brown in the same way, and if the same things happened in a local community to "unfamous" people, we wouldn't hear about it. But in Chris' case, he has apologized, and it's none of our business. We don't know what really happened, if Rihanna hit him also, etc. Bottom line, it's between, him, Rihanna, and the Lord.

    Another example is R. Kelly. And his alleged crime was worse than the others I've mentioned. But he's as successful as ever, with sexy songs, steppin songs, and gospel songs alike!
  • Daree, I'm glad that you like the article. I hope we can find the courage to forgive others as we want to be forgiven.

    Be blessed
  • Matthew Weyuker
    Shining the light on "men behaving badly" can also be a "teachable moment." Kanye's alleged drunkenness, impulsiveness, self-centeredness, cognitive distortions, and professional jealousy exhibit attitudes and behaviors of many people. Observing and judging can guide us to introspection and greater/painful self knowledge OR learning what boundaries we need to set with others who behave like Kanye
  • You know what Matt...you're right. Kanye foolishness that night caused a lot of people to become wiser:)
  • Great post ... thanks for reminding me how good God is and how quick he is to forgive. It humbles me.
  • if it humbled you in reading it...know that it humbled me in writing it:)
  • LIZ CHANG
    As I am reading, I am making this my prayer. It is a struggle!, everyday I think about people that have deeply wounded my heart and each time I think about when Jesus was walking and the pharisees were laughing at Him and then they were happy that He was going to be crucified for us. I think about His precious blood and I usually ended up crying and feeling so awful of how this world is and how am I going to live this life. I think about my future children and what am I going to teach them and to model to them. Everyday, every second the enemy is attacking our youth and the minds of the children. I am so sick of this and I just want God, our precious father to rescue us from all darkness. I want Jesus to visit us in a powerful, incredible and unforgettable way... I want you Jesus! I need you to save us once again!
  • I hope you don't mind...but i'm praying with you. I want Him to rescue Me so by His grace I can rescuse others.

    Be blessed LIz
  • Vaughn Akins
    How do we, as Believers, - Ambassadors for our Lord and His Kingdom - interact with those caught in sin? Do we, as Jesus, love the sinner, while hating the sin? Or are we, like the Pharisee, quick to point out the sin and wish harm to the sinner - instead of repentance and a change of heart - only available through our Savior? This was a convicting article, Mike. Thanks for being God's voice to me today.
  • I'm glad you enjoyed it Vaughn...be blessed!
  • Jean(Jeanaya Pierre)
    I am in total agreement with you on this issue. I am so glad you decided to direct some light on such a neglected, yet so important topic. Hopefully it will discourage many from jumping on the bandwagon of accusers and stone throwers and learn to forgive eachother instead.

    Forgive me(lol) If I may have written too much, but I always feel need to express my opinion and share my personal testimony whenever this topic arises.

    Like Taylor Swift, I was once painfully embarrased and left emotionally scarred. The feeling lasted only for a brief period, however, deep feelings of bitterness and resentment were harboured for a much longer time. I held a grudge for months. It really felt like I was trying to hurt the other person by drinking poison. It had reached a point where I seldomly fantasized about physically hurting the individual, but then God spoke to me in Romans 12:19 and said: "Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves...(Romans 12:19) The text gave me rest and some hope. It echoed in my head repeatedly, each time I would attempt to ponder a malicious thought. I struggled with it for a short while until I grew restless and eventually surrendered the issue into God's almighty hands. Because I lacked so much faith in God, I was still a bit skeptical of the manner in which He would handle the situation. Eventhough I knew He was very capable of resolving the issue, I just didn't want Him to be too easy on my offender. I wanted ultimate revenge...they were my enemy and I wanted God to hurt them the same way or maybe even suffer more pain than what I endured. God not only helped me understand the true meaning of forgiveness and why I should forgive, but He also helped me come to the realization that I am not the only one who is hurt. Through constant prayer and scripture reading, the spirit of the Lord impressed upon my heart the desire to forgive this individual. It felt like a ton of bricks was lifted off my chess. I realized that God had not only helped me learn to forgive the person, but I also developed a great deal of sympathy and concern for their spiritual well-being. I left it in God's hands to avenge my pain, but I no longer had the desire for Him to deal harshly with the person. Instead, I asked God to help them so that they may receive a blessing through my healing process.

    I know it's not that easy to just forgive someone that may have offended us or hurt us in any kind of way, but we must make an effort. We must try to remember "I(we) can do all things through Christ...(Phil.4:13)" and Luke 11:4: Forgive us our sins; for we also forgive..." We must not think we are any better than our brothers and sisters or any less of a sinner, for it is only by God's grace and mercy we are still here.

    We need to also realize we must not engage in battle with one another. The battle is not between you an I. It's between good and evil. God and Satan...which side will you choose??

    Brother Mike: Please understand, I am in no way shape or form trying to steal the light from the beautiful presentation you put together. I just wanted to share with you and others my testimony regarding the topic of 'Forgiveness'. I hope that many will be blessed by what you have presented and my testimony as well. Let's remember to continue to spread the Gospel throughout the world to hasten His coming.

    Be blessed,

    Jean aka Jeanaya Pierre
  • Jean,

    You didn't steal the light...you only helped to make it brighter!

    I too know what its like to harbor resentment against someone ...like you said, "its like a ton of bricks." You can't speak peaceably to them, you don't want to be around them, you're thinking of ways to hurt them. And it took me a looooooong time to realize the power of forgiveness.. But when I had the courage, strength, and sense enough to realize forgiveness...it was truly beautiful.

    And you right: its only by His mercy that we're still here.

    Thank you for your testimony...I hope that those who read it...will have the courge to be as transparent as you have.

    God bless.
  • Jean
    Any time bro. You know we're in the same army, so I have to support you in the battle anyway I can. I also want to let you know that you're doing an amazing job informing people on today's events and giving your view from a christian's perspective. Continue to preach and teach The Word brother. God bless!
  • No doubt bro...keep me in prayer and I'll do the same
  • Jean
    Cool!
  • Andrew Smith
    This was quite refreshing and uplifting. We as brothers and sisters need to look at forgiveness as a second nature,and not a privilege to give each other. Great thoughts
  • Thanks Drew.

    I agree with you. Though forgiveness is hard...its necessary. Not only for the benefit of the person we're forgiving but also for us.
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